Suffolk County Adoption
Understanding the Adoption Process
Choosing an Agency
Adoption processes can be a long and complicated process, with many choices
and decisions to make. It begins with choosing the right adoption agency.
With over 130 agencies in New York State, this step may take some time.
Once you have chosen an agency, it is very difficult to change it so it's
important you choose wisely from the start. Both public and private agencies
do not charge fees for adopting children that are under the care of local
social services. For a list of agencies, you can visit the New York State
Office of Children and Family Services website
here.
Submitting an Application
The next step is to submit an application to the agency that your family
has chosen. On the application, it will ask questions about your basic
information, your family's background, details about your home life and
how many people are currently living in your home. It will also ask to
describe the type of child you think would be suitable to adopt considering
your situation. If you are uncomfortable with this or are unsure what
to put, the agency can always help.
During this process, the agency will also check the criminal record of both parents as well as any other adults over 18 living in the house. They must also check with the New York State Child Abuse and Maltreatment Register to see if any of the prospective family members has harmed any children in this way in the past. Neither of these investigations will officially determine if the family can adopt, but it is the goal of the agency to ensure that children are placed in safe environments.
Homestudy and Training
Sometime within the four months after submitting your application to adopt,
a caseworker from the agency will come to your home and perform a series
of meetings and training sessions to make certain that this is the best
idea for your family and for the child. It is essential so that the caseworker
can get to know pertinent information about the prospective family and
allows the family to realize the full ramifications of adoption. On occasion,
it can prove difficult for the family, and they may opt out.
There is additional training that follows which gives the potential parents an opportunity to fully understand adoption and decide if they are ready. They are able to identify strengths they can bring to the adoption situation and become more aware of what the child's needs would be. Most importantly, the agency workers can give the families helpful information, tips, and skills so that they may be successful with the adoption of their child.
Finding a Good Match
After the training, a caseworker will work with you to find a child that
will match you and your family well. New York State has published
The
Adoption Album that provides a listing of children in need of homes, along with a photo
and short bio. Once a family wants to look further into a particular child,
they contact the child's agency for more information, and the agency will
look over their home study paperwork. When agencies ultimately place children,
they are looking to protect the child's best interests. They do this by
trying to maintain as many of the child's connections as possible to their
siblings, culture, and his/her family. It is best to consider multiple
children throughout this part of the process and not to limit yourself.
Three Months of Supervision
After all of these steps are complete it is usually time for the child
to come home finally. Even then, it is not finalized until after a three-month
trial period. According to New York laws, it is a requirement that the
agency checks in with the family and supervise them for the short amount
of time before the adoption becomes official and legally binding. It is
the goal of the caseworker to give support and answer any questions, as
well as make certain that both the child and family are at ease.
Completing the Process in Court
In the final stage, you will be asking the court to make the adoptive relationship
with your child final by issuing an order of adoption. It is highly recommended
that you have an attorney that is familiar with this process. It is required
that they prepare your petition for adoption along with any supporting
documents and file it with the court on your behalf. That is a service
that our legal team at Lynn Poster-Zimmerman, PC can provide for all her
prospective clients.
Importance of Quality Legal Representation
Adoption is a specialized area of law. It is important to work with an attorney who has experience and is well-versed in the laws and procedures that pertain to this field. You should feel confident that your attorney can be effective and thorough in guiding you through the legal process of adoption. Our firm has proven results in helping many families complete the adoption process and looks forward to assisting you and your family through this life-enhancing procedure.
Attorney Lynn Poster-Zimmerman has been practicing law since 1983 and brings to the table a wealth of legal experience and skills which you may need to handle any family law matter, including adoption.
It is strongly urged that you contact her office for a free consultation about your particular situation if you are in need of an adoption attorney.